1. If you want to make sure children follow your wishes (or when I want to teach discipline), lower your body as high as a child. Sitting or kneeling, select which is comfortable to you.
2. Face-to-eye. This is an important part. If necessary, gently palingkan his face so he looked directly to you.
3. If the child is very angry, rub her back or stomach. This is a form of stroke recognition. No need to attract or hold her by force to close with him, unless the child is absolutely hysterical and need to be soothed. If a child is hysterical, let her calm down before to talk to. Let him regulate his breathing.
4. Change the tone of voice to be firm but gentle. Your voice is naturally up and down when you're happy or having fun.
5. Give the words to children to help the flow of conversation. Help children who are still very small by messengers to follow your words and encourage him to try. For children who are older, you can open a conversation with the ideas, such as, "You seemed annoyed."
6. Repeat back what the child said. This shows that you really listen. It also gives you time to rearrange your mind.
7. Do not interrupt the child when she was told. Let him say what is on his mind. Tell him that you understand. When your turn comes, they will stop talking and listen to you. If they interrupt you, saying, "I understand, but let Mama finished first, after that we can talk."
8. Even if your heart is full of turmoil, try always to stay calm.
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