Teaching Optimism to Children

Imitate their parents is how children learn to live life. If the parents are the type of optimistic face life, you will see his son also will like it, "said Walker, as quoted by msnbc.com. Here are some tips to make the child more optimistic:

Listening carefully
The key to get a sense of trust of children is to let him say what he wants said, and you as parents have to listen without judging. According to Walker, the children have strong feelings but do not have words to express it. The story also pointed out that he is part of the learning process of their thinking. They could have said, "I hate Math!" when what they really want to say is "How can I learn mathematics better?" The task of the parent to find out what they want to say.

Avoid labeling
Conscious or not, children will try to meet or against all expectations of her parents. So, every time you say, "My second child is my child the most shy," and was heard by the child, then it will become a permanent identity in him. Negative labeling on children can harm children's self concept, and make parents face the things that he did not like in the child continuously.

Re form, do not be avoided
Teenagers want to be treated seriously and understood. To do this, parents must face the situation. For example, if the child said they did not like to go to school, it's not realistic to respond to the normative words and clichés, such as, "Do not worry, everything will be fine, really." Ask more about what bothered him and make him uncomfortable to go to school, and look for the things he liked at school. Focus on that and help him face the problems that made him reluctant to go to school. Find out also whether it results from people who bothered him (bullying).

Seeing the bright side
According to Walker, it is important to demonstrate to your child about the good side and bad side of every situation he faced, encourage him to look on the bright side. When your child feels sad and see the world as a very bad place to live, you can respond with words that the world needs balance and bad things can happen. Because there are bad things that he could see good things and appreciate it better.

Optimism and hope is a very close and sometimes overlooked by parents. Though it is required by a child to wake up in the morning and try to get through another day.

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